Why would you want to be anything other than more of who you are?
When trying to figure out who you are and what you want sexually, look inside yourself first. If there are any small or large desires bubbling up, know that this is the place to start.
Everything you feel is legitimate.
Anything you are wanting to express is possible.
Whatever it is, this is unique to you, can only be expressed by you and most importantly is an integral part of who you are.
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