Desire comes from a deep feeling in you, based on energetic sensations.
To locate and help bring out the true expression of desire, you begin by tapping in through deep breathing and conscious connection to your body.
I have explored many areas of sexuality and every time I get to a point of change where one desire has ended and another is starting to take over, there is excitement and there is also fear.
What is wrong with me?
Can I allow myself to express that?
Why am I feeling this way?
The desire you have is connected to every part of who you are as a sexual being.
If you suppress that which turns you on, you may find yourself not functioning to full capacity; unable to get an erection, losing the erection, not having orgasmic experiences, or becoming disinterested in sex altogether.
You cannot stop your desire.
It needs to have the space to play out and express itself freely.
Accepting yourself for what you desire,
I AM UNIQUE IN MY DESIRES, and
knowing that it is OK to have these feelings,
I AM OK TO FEEL THIS,
is the beginning of your expansion into sexual exploration.
See my other blog post on Breathing into Desire