Control Freak? Let Go Baby!

Having to control everything holds you back from really feeling deeply. Your body and mind go into high alert mode. Tension and stress follow. Nothing is ever exactly like you want it because you are always busy making sure that…

I’m a Late Bloomer

“I’m a late bloomer”. Once again we label our experiences as not valid, not early enough, too late, comparing it to what? There is no manual for when and how you “bloom” sexually. We all have our own unique experience.…

The Elixir of Life

After thirty years of experimentation and exploration I can honestly say that I have found the CURE to all those personal development issues and physical ailments with which we have all been grappling. YEAH! I wanted to personally share with…

Bringing Back Eroticism

LISTEN TO AUDIO VERSION > How do you bring the erotic back in your relationship? The short answer is that you need to consciously take some risks in your relationship. The risks are going to involve finding ways to open…

Keep Igniting Intimacy and Desire

Sex?  Not now, later, too tired, too busy, too old, can’t get it up, I just don’t feel like it or my partner does’nt want sex anymore. We love each other and we have sex occasionally but it is the…

Layers of Intimacy

“The first layer of intimacy is to be intimate with yourself”, quote from the powerful one man show “Bi, Hung, Fit… and Married”. I want more intimacy from him. He is not affectionate or as warm as I would like…